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Thanksgiving 2020

11/26/2020

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Richmond, Virginia
​November 26, 2020

A Thanksgiving gift

I am happy to report that Alison and I, all of our children, all of our parents (save one) and all of my siblings voted for the Biden-Harris ticket. In turn, we did our part in their winning all of the states represented by the extended family (Virginia, Maryland, Pennsylvania, New York, California, Massachusetts and Arizona) except one (Indiana).

I am optimistic that President Biden and Vice President Harris will guide all of our lives toward an improved standing on the world and national stages.
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Our Thanksgiving

Here are some photos from our Thanksgiving. Alison and I headed out to my mom's house in the style and comfort of my dad's convertible. We walked around the lake in her neighborhood, enjoying the glorious weather. Ian and two of his best friends spent the day hiking in Zion National Park, while my sister Rachel and her family celebrated at home. We had two feasts, one in the late afternoon at my mom's house and another in the early evening at Cam and Nancy's house, the first in their new home. We were joined by Nancy's parents and brother, and spent all of our time (save for the meal itself) in the garage, with plenty of air circulation. Alison's dad, pictured last here, spent the day with his son Tony and his family.

Bethlehem

I was supposed to join my sisters Liesl and Rachel at CookieCon in Orlando during the first week of September. Sadly, the convention was canceled because of COVID-19 . So, since we wanted to get together somewhere, we decided to meet in Bethlehem, Pennsylvania. Why Bethlehem? Well, it is exactly half-way between Boston (where Rachel lives) and Richmond (where Liesl and I live). We stayed in a local AirBNB, dined outdoors for all of our meals, shopped in downtown Bethlehem, tried out the local zoo, and visited the Crayola Experience.  All in all, it was a pleasurable four days.
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Carson Trexler

On April 4th of 2020, Carson Trexler was ushered into the world. He is the first child of Emelia (née Le Blanc), Cam's very good childhood friend, and her husband Kareem. He is also the first grandchild for Nancy and Chris Le Blanc, our own good friends. There is no doubt whatsoever that Carson is cute as a darned button.
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From the archive

This picture of my sister Rachel and I was taken on Sunday, September 16, 2001. I remember it distinctly, as it was one week after the tragedy of 9/11 and one week before my brother Andrew died suddenly of an undiagnosed heart condition. Despite the tragedies that bookend this photo, this is a favorite of mine. My sister looks as cute as ever, and I had hair 😎.
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This picture of Cameron and his best friend Michael Zacharias was taken sometime in the late 1990s. The looks on their faces are classic, a distinctly disgruntled Cameron and a happy-go-lucky Michael.
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This picture was taken around 1975. It shows me (obviously, the chubby one on the left) and my grandfather (“Papa”), my mom’s dad. We were playing shuffleboard, possibly at Sunny Oaks, a summer getaway in the Catskills. Shuffleboard was a favorite pastime for Papa, and soon became mine also. I still enjoy playing when circumstances permit.
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Notorious RBG

Alison is one of Ruth Bader Ginsburg's biggest fans. After she died, Alison went on a buying spree, purchasing various RBG t-shirts for all of the women in our extended family. Here's a picture of my sister-in-law Ginger in her t-shirt.
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Random pictures

First, we have Nancy, dressed up for Halloween as the mayor from the TV show Schitt's Creek. You can't  see it here, but she was also sporting an impressive beer belly. Next, we have Ian Johnson, our neighbor in Lexington. He's been coming to our home each morning to have Alison oversee his schoolwork. He's an adorable, funny kid. Next, we have my mom, dressed in her Notre Dame finest, to cheer on the Fighting Irish at a recent football game. Lastly, we have our very good friend Beth. She joined us in Lexington for the day recently, at which time Alison presented her with a quilt she had made for her.

Books

It is rare for me to read a book twice, but I recently re-read The Drunkard's Walk, written by Leonard Mlodinow. I was motivated to re-read it after recently reading Feynman's Rainbow, another book by Mlodinow. 

The book introduces concepts like Heisenberg's uncertainty principle, chaos theory, and probability distributions, and explains in relatively simple terms how as humans we often assign meaning and structure to processes that are inherently random.

Mlodinow uses the stock market as a stereotypical example and explains how past performance of a fund manager provides no guidance whatsoever as to how that manager will perform in the future. To illustrate this point, he presents the two charts reproduced below. In the first one, we see 800 fund managers, ranked by their performance over a five year period. In the second one, we see how those same 800 fund managers performed in the next five years. As you can see, it is completely random -- past performance provides no indication whatsoever of future performance.

Any yet, we continue to put unreasonable faith in our fund managers and expect future performance to reflect past performance.
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Music

Here are three of my favorites of late. First, When the Saints Go Marching In, performed by The Preservation Hall Jazz Band and special guests including Paul McCartney, Elvis Costello and Dave Matthews, among others. McCartney plays an absolutely lousy trumpet, but that's part of the charm of this performance. Second, we have That Girl Is You, performed by Dave Matthews and Preservation Hall. Matthews performs a terrific tune, and is a hoot to boot. Lastly, we have This Train Is Bound For Glory, an infectious rendition of this classic tune by Mumford and Sons and The Old Crow Medicine Show. Check them all out. You won't be disappointed!

Tidbit

From the time our nation was founded until Lincoln's presidency, Thanksgiving was celebrated on different dates, varying from state to state. It often coincided with the celebration of Evacuation Day, celebrating the day that the British left the United States after the end of the Revolutionary War. Eventually, Thanksgiving superseded Evacuation Day. 

In 1863, President Lincoln formalized Thanksgiving across the country as the last Thursday in November. In 1939, President Roosevelt changed the date of celebration to the next to last Thursday in November. Finally, in 1941 he changed it again to the fourth Thursday in November, where it has remained ever since.
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Quarantine 2020: Day 209

10/23/2020

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October 23, 2020
​Richmond, Virginia

Quarantine continues

The quarantine continues unabated as Day 209 rolls into view. We spend the majority of our time in Lexington, returning to Richmond for Monday and Tuesday mornings so that Alison can squeeze in a few of her favorite clients. At her salon, they've implemented some strict and impressive COVID-19 measures, so we've got our fingers crossed that Alison (and, in turn, I) will remain healthy.

So far, so good.

Our time in Richmond also presents Alison an opportunity to walk with her many good friends. Pictured here are two of her regular walking buddies, Nancy (center) and Cousin Annie (right).
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From the archive

I ran across these two photos recently. In the first one, I am sporting my favorite-ever beard, while vacationing on Ocacroke Island back circa 2005. As much as I liked this beard, Alison did not, and as my personal stylist, she has refused to let me grow another one. She prefers my beard short, neat and trim.

The second photo was taken during our one-and-only family vacation in August 2003. We saw various sites in and around San Diego; this picture was captured at the world-famous San Diego Zoo, which was probably the highlight of this ill-fated trip. Ian was 11 years old; Eli was 7. I can't quite tell what animal they were posing with.
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Double Nickels

I had planned a big bash for my 55th birthday back in May, but the party was dashed by COVID-19. Instead, Alison contacted all of our friends and family and asked them each contribute a photograph of them wishing me well. She collected all of the photographs and put them into a hard-bound book. It was a wonderful and thoughtful gift.
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Corrotoman Weekend

We spent a recent weekend at Tony (Alison's brother) and Melanie's vacation home down on "the river". Given the beautiful weather, we chose to drive dad's convertible with the top down, of course. It was a beautiful fall ride and a terrific time all around. Sophie even took her first ever boat ride!
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Ian

Ian graced us with his presence for a week at the end of September. He had two weddings, back-to-back, in Charlottesville. We had the opportunity to spend some very socially distanced time with him for a couple of days before and after his wedding weekend. Alison was disappointed that she couldn't spend more time with him, but between a cross-country plane trip and two 75-person weddings, he was definitely a high risk.
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The Confederacy

If the Confederacy is alive and well anywhere in the country, it most likely is here in Richmond, Virginia. As the capital of the Confederacy, we've got the Civil War Museum, the Confederate War Memorial Museum, the White House of the Confederacy and more Confederate monuments than you could shake a stick at. 

Pictured at right is the Robert E. Lee Monument, the last Confederate statue still standing on Monument Avenue. Monument Avenue, in fact, is named after the Confederate statues that line it.

The monument was defaced during the civil unrest of this past summer. As much as I like the smiley face and wear my own button every day, I had nothing to do with the one pictured here 😇.
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The resurrection of the Back Yard

The back yard in Lexington had been suffering for at least five years, overgrown with weeds and a space that we just did not use. This summer, we had a 16' x 16' concrete slab poured, bought some outdoor furniture, rocks and mulch, a fire pit and some decorative lights, and we've now got a very inviting outdoor space to use when the weather allows. Come join us there sometime!

Books

The COVID-19 pandemic has turned me into a hermit. I can easily go for a couple of weeks without leaving the property. Alison ventures out to buy food and walk with her friends, but I've remained holed up at home. This has given me the opportunity to read more than usual. Here is a summary of the last few books that I've read and enjoyed.

​102 Minutes

This book was written by Jim Dwyer and Kevin Flynn back in 2005. Dwyer was a Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist for The New York Times. Sadly, he died recently and I read his obituary in The Times. It mentioned this book:
​In 2005, Mr. Dwyer and a Times colleague, Kevin Flynn, published “102 Minutes: The Untold Story of the Fight to Survive Inside the Twin Towers.” The book, based in part on a long investigative report published in The Times in 2002, and on survivors’ accounts and tapes of police and fire operations, chronicled the final minutes of many among the thousands who died in the collapsing towers.
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The topic intrigued me, and a sufficient number of years have passed since that tragedy that I felt comfortable reading it. 2,749 people died inside the Twin Towers that day, and the authors give you a chilling, inside look at the people that made it out and those that didn't. There were many stories of bravery that day, most of them about civilians, not the rescue crews. The book also gives you a detailed look at the dysfunction at the Port Authority (the owners of the towers) and the fire and police departments of New York, who couldn't communicate with themselves, let alone others during the catastrophe.

The Grand Design

When and how did the universe begin? Why are we here? What is the nature of reality? Is the apparent “grand design” of our universe evidence of a benevolent creator who set things in motion—or does science offer another explanation?
These are the questions posed and answered in The Grand Design by Stephen Hawking and Leonard Mlodinow. It introduces the various answers that have been posited over the last 6000-7000 years, concluding with today's answer to the questions: M-theory and model-dependent realism.

The book is geared toward the scientifically-inclined lay person. The topics were clearly presented and reasoned, which is a rarity in books of this kind. As for me, I struggle with M-theory's concept of the multiverse. I understand the reasoning that leads to its proposal, but I'm not yet convinced that there aren't more plausible results of that reasoning. I'm ready and willing to listen to some.
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Feynman's Rainbow

In the early 1980s, Leonard Mlodinow arrived at the California Institute of Technology (a.k.a. Caltech) to begin a postdoctoral fellowship. As luck would have it, Richard Feynman was just two doors down from Mlodinow's office. Despite the fact that Feynman's best years were behind him and he was slowly dying of liposarcoma, he was still sharp, quick-witted and irreverent.

The two struck up a somewhat unlikely friendship over the next year, and it is chronicled by Mlodinow here in this book.
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All the Devils are Here

Louise Penny had a successful career with the Canadian Broadcasting Corporation as a radio host and journalist.  After 18 years, newly married and newly sober, she took up mystery writing and created the character of Armand Gamache, the Chief Inspector of the Sûreté du Québec, the police service of the Canadian province of Quebec. 

Penny has written 16 books in the Gamache series, with All the Devils are Here the most recent release. If you enjoy crime fiction and a flair for the Francophone, then don't miss her books. They are engaging and gripping.
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The Johnstown Flood

David McCullough has won the Pulitzer Prize twice, for biographies and Harry Truman and John Adams. He's written many other books before and after those award winners. His very first book was The Johnstown Flood, a close and careful analysis of the Great Flood of 1889, focusing on both the people who lived and died on that day, plus the gross negligence that lead to the flood.

I've read several other books of his: The Great Bridge: The Epic Story of the Building of the Brooklyn Bridge,  The Path Between the Seas: The Creation of the Panama Canal, 1870–1914, and The Wright Brothers. I can honestly recommend them all! McCullough is a master at his craft.
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Modern Romance

This blog post is getting long, so let me abbreviate these last few books.

Aziz Ansari, of Parks and Recreation fame, has written a surprisingly erudite book about the perils of modern romance with the advent of both the Internet and ubiquitous mobile devices.
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Lost in Math: How Beauty Leads Physics Astray

Sabine Hossenfelder is a German theoretical physicist. In her book Lost in Math, she posits that nothing useful has happened in theoretical physics in the last 40-50 years and that's because the physicists have become "lost in the math." The search for beautiful mathematical theories has led us astray, since (she believes) it is quite possible that the next round of useful theories "will not be pretty," but will be accurate nonetheless.

If you enjoy theoretical physics, then read this book. If you don't, then don't 😉.
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The Terranauts: A Novel

The Terranauts was a very odd book. The author took the real-life story of the Biosphere 2 project outside of Tucson, Arizona, and overlaid additional, fictional storylines onto that story.

Now, the real story is gripping enough, as told in various other books like ​The Human Experiment: Two Years and Twenty Minutes Inside Biosphere 2, written by one of the eight people that sequestered for those two years. I saw no need whatsoever for the introduction of fictional storylines.

If you are interested in Biosphere 2, then read The Human Experiment. Skip this book.
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Music

Paul Simon is a towering presence in the music industry. At 79 years old, he is still actively writing songs and releasing albums — and good ones at that! Here he is in 2016 on Live from Here.  He is performing Rewrite, a catchy little tune.
Martin Sexton is the 10th of 12 kids from a large, Catholic family in Rochester, New York. Two or three decades ago, he parlayed a successful stint as a busker on the streets of Boston into an equally successful career as a professional musician. His music spans various rock genres, but his style is definitely and uniquely his own. I've seen him live in concert several times. He's not to be missed!
Herb Alpert is a Jewish, American trumpeter who has been making music since 1957. He led "Herb Alpert & the Tijuana Brass" in the 1960s, at which time he also co-founded A&M Records. At the age of 85, he's still going, albeit not necessarily strongly. Here is an Alpert arrangement of Irving Berlin's "Puttin' on the Ritz" with a dance accompaniment. Notice that the entire dance was performed within a single, uninterrupted take!

Tidbit

A favorite idiom of mine refers to "the best laid plans of mice and men." I've often wondered about its derivation and whether it was inspired by the John Steinbeck novel Of Mice and Men. So, given the copious amount of time on my hands recently, I decided to go figure it out.

It turns out that the phrase comes from a poem To a Mouse by the Scottish poet Robert Burns. The poem tells how the author, while ploughing a field, disturbed a mouse's nest. The poem is an apology to the mouse:
​But, Mousie, thou art no thy lane [you aren't alone]
In proving foresight may be vain:
The best laid schemes o' mice an' men
Gang aft a-gley, [often go awry]
An' lea'e us nought but grief an' pain,
For promised joy...
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As for the Steinbeck novel, the title of that novel is taken from the poem.
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Kitt Peak

6/2/2019

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June 2nd, 2019
​Lexington, Virginia

​Kitt Peak National Observatory

Kitt Peak National Observatory, just outside Tucson, Arizona, is part of the National Optical Astronomy Observatory. It is run by the Association of Universities for Research in Astronomy in association with the National Science Foundation. 

Eli has been offered a job at Kitt Peak which he has accepted, with a start date of August 1st. He will be helping to manage access to NEID, a state-of-the-art astronomical spectrograph being installed at Kitt Peak.

Given the remoteness of the location, employees work multiple days in a row at the peak and sleep in dormitory-style accommodations. They then have a few days off and repeat the cycle.

Although the application process seemed to drag on forever — ​he initially applied for this job last August — it sounds like a great opportunity and gives him a chance to get to know many people in the academic astrophysics community.
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The kids are scattering

With Eli moving out of our home and off to Tucson, the kids are now officially scattered around the country.

Nathan continues to live in Indianapolis and is looking forward to a 3-month volunteer stint in Madagascar at the end of this year. He will be working on two projects: lemur population monitoring and reforestation. He hopes that this experience will "put him over the top" and help him get into graduate school, his longer-term goal.

Ian continues to live life to the fullest as a San Diegan. During the day, he works at NavAIR and is currently assigned to the F-18 cockpit pressurization team. When he's not working, he's climbing mountains, skiing, playing beach volleyball and soccer, and pretty much any other physical activity you can think of.

​Lastly, Cam and his wife Nancy — thankfully — do live close to us. They've got one more year in Charlottesville until Nancy graduates from her Nurse Practitioner program. At that point, they've talked about moving to Richmond and producing our first grandchild, but we're trying to play things down so that they don't realize that we're super-excited about that prospect.
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Books

Magnitude is a must-read for anyone, young or old, with an interest in science. It walks the reader through all of the major items that can be measured (distance, mass, volume, time, and so on) and for each one, shows you how items in our universe scale from the incredibly small to the incomprehensibly large. It is all illustrated in fascinating fashion, with the illustrations provided by a woman with a Ph.D. in data visualization. Her work is stunning.

​Check it out.
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Rachel Duncan

2/17/2019

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Sunday, February 17th, 2019
​Lexington, Virginia

Rachel Duncan

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I never met Rachel Duncan. 

I did see her on stage and heard her perform many times, as Principal Trumpet of the Charlottesville Symphony at the University of Virginia. At the age of 33, having already performed with prestigious orchestras around the world, Rachel was a rising star in the classical music community.

​Rachel left our world (suddenly, unexpectedly, sadly) in August of last year. In September, the University of Virginia held a memorial service for her at Old Cabell Hall, home of the Charlottesville Symphony. Eli and I attended the service, which was structured as a series of musical performances from Rachel's closest friends and co-workers.

Rachel's husband spoke eloquently of her, after which he performed (also on the trumpet) an original jazz work with the UVA Jazz Ensemble. Lastly, the jazz department's John D'earth led the mourners out of the auditorium to a slow and haunting rendition of Patsy Cline's Just A Closer Walk With Thee. The service ended with Rachel's husband on stage, alone, playing the closing notes of the song to an empty auditorium.

The entire service was incredibly moving. It was, really, beyond anything that words could express. So, I won't even try.

Health update

In my last blog post, made almost a year ago, I said:

​All of that explains why I need the procedure (installation of a TIPS, or transjugular intrahepatic portosystemic shunt). As for when and where, the procedure will be done this Wednesday (March 14th) by the Interventional Radiology staff at Johns Hopkins. I will be monitored for a day or two and then sent home, barring any complications from the procedure.

I'm happy to report that there were no complications from the procedure that prevented me from going home after a couple of days in the hospital. I was unlucky enough, however, to exhibit one of the known complications from the TIPS procedure: hepatic encephalopathy. To quote Wikipedia:

​The first stage of hepatic encephalopathy is characterized by an inverted sleep-wake pattern (sleeping by day, being awake at night). The second stage is marked by lethargy and personality changes. The third stage is marked by worsened confusion. The fourth stage is marked by a progression to coma.

I quickly advanced to the third stage, rendering me (in my own words) a "happy dimwit." It was a very odd feeling, listening to someone speak, hearing the individual words, but having no ability at all to string those words together into something imbued with meaning.

Luckily, however, "there's a drug for that." In this case, it's a drug called Rifaximin. Although it was developed and approved for the treatment of  irritable bowel syndrome,  it turns out to be an excellent treatment for hepatic encephalopathy. Go figure!

Fast forward to September

With the encephalopathy under control, I was able to steer clear of doctors and hospitals for a good, solid six months. In early fall, however, my hemoglobin started to drop. To combat this, my oncologist started me on a course of steroids. That did the trick to remedy my hemoglobin, but the steroids also made me susceptible to other "opportunistic" infections (since steroids work by "shutting off" one's immune system). In my case, I came down with a case of cryptococcal meningitis. That's a fungal infection in and around the brain. The diagnosis and initial treatment for it cemented my inpatient status at Johns Hopkins for a couple of weeks in November. The complete treatment for this type of meningitis takes a full year, but it is as simple as taking a daily pill.

All in all, I continue my tour of modern medicine and the seemingly miraculous solutions that it can provide. What will the rest of 2019 bring? Who knows, but I bet it will be something interesting.

Music

I've discovered a few new bands lately. Here is one of my favorites: Jenny and the Mexicats. Although many of their lyrics are in Spanish, a language that I do not know, I find their music and melodies to be infectious. Your mileage might vary.

Photo collections

Here are some photo collections from some of the highlights of the last year. Click any of them for more pictures.
Cam and Nancy's Wedding
Easter 2018
Botanical Garden 2018
Cincinnati 2018
Eli's College Graduation
Christmas 2018
Chaz's Wedding

Photos

​Here are some photos that we've either taken or collected recently.

Tidbit

It always surprises me when I run across a word that I've just never heard before, despite reading numerous books, magazines and newspapers for over 53 years. Just today I came across one of these: diktat. To quote Wikipedia:

A diktat is a statute, harsh penalty or settlement imposed upon a defeated party by the victor, or a dogmatic decree. The term has acquired a pejorative sense, to describe a set of rules dictated by a foreign power or an unpopular local power. The phrases "To impose its values" or "give orders" can be synonymous with giving a diktat.
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​I'll mull this one over and look for an opportunity to drop it into casual conversation.
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No stem cells for you!

10/1/2017

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Sunday, October 1st, 2017
Richmond, Virginia

Health update

I apologize for the very long delay since my last post, but it's been an eerily quiet month with nothing substantial to report until now. If you'll recall from my last post, this is where we left off:

The official name for my current condition is non-cirrhotic portal hypertension, which decodes as: elevated blood pressure in the veins leading back to the liver that is not caused by damage to the liver itself... Until this hypertension is dealt with, any bone marrow transplant takes a back seat.

It turns out that I misunderstood what non-cirrhotic really means. Refining my definition from above, it should have read: elevated blood pressure in the veins leading back to the liver that is not caused by cirrhosis of the liver. There are plenty of other ailments that might plague the liver and cause portal hypertension.
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So where do we stand now?

Here is the capsule summary of where we stand right now:
  1. The disease in my bone marrow is gone
  2. The disease in my spleen and elsewhere has been substantially eliminated
  3. A stem cell transplant is needed to knock out the last vestiges of disease
  4. A stem cell transplant will fail (i.e. death) with an unhealthy liver
  5. Circumstantial evidence (i.e. portal hypertension) indicates an unhealthy liver
  6. A liver biopsy is needed to confirm or deny that indication
  7. I am not healthy enough for a liver biopsy (my platelet count is too low)
  8. In light of (7) and (8), we must assume that the liver is unhealthy
  9. A stem cell transplant is therefore not an option
  10. The last vestiges of the disease remain unchecked
That last point is the real kicker, of course. The liver specialists outlined two general approaches to #10:
  • Do nothing (i.e. palliative care)
  • Do something (e.g. a clinical trial or experimental therapy)
Assuming that we're not prepared to proceed quite yet with the first approach, we will be meeting with my oncologist at Johns Hopkins soon to discuss what the latter options might be. We'll keep you informed about what is discussed.

On the positive side, I haven't felt better all year! Go figure.

About the title of this post

For those of you who do not orbit in the Seinfeld universe, the title of this post is a reference to a classic catchphrase from that show. Check out the accompanying video to see more.

Kids on the move

All four of our kids are currently professionally displaced for one reason or another:
  • Cameron was evacuated from St. Croix in advance of Hurricane Maria
  • Nathan is in San Antonio, Texas at a Petco conference for senior dog trainers
  • Ian continues his adventures in San Diego, now extended through Thanksgiving
  • Eli is in Jacksonville, Florida to observe an occultation of Triton, one of Neptune's moons
Alison and I continue to live vicariously through their various adventures.

Books

I've knocked off a few books in the intervening month. They were:
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Notes from a Small Island

Bill Bryson is a favorite author of mine, one for which I try to read everything he's written. Notes from a Small Island chronicles his three-week "goodbye tour" of the UK before relocating to the United States around the turn of the century. I enjoyed the book, but it quickly fell into a regular pattern: for each town he visited on the tour, he was almost always surprised, pleasantly or otherwise. Plus, having never heard of almost any of the towns he visited, I found the book seemed repetitive. Native Brits might find otherwise.

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Still Foolin' 'Em

The full title of this book is actually Still Foolin' 'Em: Where I've Been, Where I'm Going, and Where the Hell Are My Keys? Written by Billy Crystal, it is an informal memoir of his unexpectedly rich and varied life. It's well worth the quick read.

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Glass Houses

Written by Québécois author Louise Penny, Glass Houses is the latest installment in her Inspector Gamache series. I recommend that you read them all, in order of course, in order to understand and appreciate the expansive story arc.

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The Social Animal

I have a bad habit of always finishing a book that I've started, even if I need to set it aside and come back to it a few years later. The Social Animal: The Hidden Sources of Love, Character, and Achievement, written by The New York Times columnist David Brooks, is one of those books. This densely written book falls squarely in the realm of social psychology and I expect that I could have finished it more easily if I had read it back in college when my mind was a bit more nimble. I do recommend this book if you have any interest in the subject matter, but make sure to take it slowly and easily. It's not a page-turner.

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Robert B. Parker's Kickback

Robert B. Parker wrote over 70 novels in his lifetime, 40 of which concerned his best-known protagonist, Spenser. After Parker died suddenly in 2010, his family selected author Ace Atkins to continue the Spenser series. He's written six Spenser novels so far; this is the fourth of them. If you are already a fan of Robert B. Parker, then by all means continue your reading with this book. If you've never read Parker but enjoy crime fiction, then definitely start at the beginning with his debut novel, The Godwulf Manuscript and continue from there.

Tidbit

This past month has also been a busy one for crossword puzzles. In the past, I've always enjoyed doing them (for example, if I saw a half-finished puzzle lying on a coffee table) but it is only recently that I've switched into daily mode. Each day I do the puzzle from either The Wall Street Journal or The New York Times. On more ambitious days, I do both!

When doing these puzzles, you can't help but pick up new words, but not necessarily words that you will ever have the opportunity to use in everyday speech or even writing. Case in point: a recent clue was simply Stage direction and the answer was...
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 Exeunt is borrowed from Latin, the third-person plural present indicative (yikes) of the verb exire, which translates as "to go out" or "to leave." When I run across words and explanations like these, my response is always the same:
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